isn't pay it for3ward just being calculative in another way?Originally posted by BillyBong:Our society does not yet appreciate the simple gestures that improve our days. A cheerful expression and a beaming 'good morning!' can go a long way to upping the mood at the start of a hectic day.
Yet our people continue the 'mind my own business' mentality, ignoring the friendly gestures that come our way.
In some aspects, 'pay it forward' might be a good concept to adopt: to extend a helping hand and expect nothing in return is a sign of true generosity, completely unlike our current calculative mindsets.
There are FEW 'happy' people in SG, and it's getting fewer still...Originally posted by BillyBong:Our society does not yet appreciate the simple gestures that improve our days. A cheerful expression and a beaming 'good morning!' can go a long way to upping the mood at the start of a hectic day.
Yet our people continue the 'mind my own business' mentality, ignoring the friendly gestures that come our way.
In some aspects, 'pay it forward' might be a good concept to adopt: to extend a helping hand and expect nothing in return is a sign of true generosity, completely unlike our current calculative mindsets.
The whole idea of pay it forward is to extend help to a stranger without self benefit, hoping that the stranger, upon receiving aid, will feel compelled to likewise offer his/her help to another without expecting anything in return.Originally posted by hisoka:isn't pay it for3ward just being calculative in another way?
If the people are truly happy, well-to-do and have wat we call "disposable happiness", our service and tourism industry would be in a much better shape than other East Asian countries. Unimaginable that it was still being touted as a shopping paradise a few years back.Originally posted by BillyBong:In some aspects, 'pay it forward' might be a good concept to adopt: to extend a helping hand and expect nothing in return is a sign of true generosity, completely unlike our current calculative mindsets.
We do not yet have a balanced lifestyle, without the misguided and rabid pursuit of money. Thus we cannot expect Singaporeans to feel 'happy', or even have some indicator to measure our level of happiness.Originally posted by ^tamago^:If the people are truly happy, well-to-do and have wat we call "disposable happiness", our service and tourism industry would be in a much better shape than other East Asian countries. Unimaginable that it was still being touted as a shopping paradise a few years back.
Yeah lor.Originally posted by BillyBong:Until we find some equilibrium in our distorted sense of living, we cannot hope to be 'happy', or gracious enough to say 'hello' to the average stranger on the street.
Your happiness over Good Health, Security, and Family, will all go down the drain when you lose your job to a variety of reason - commonly to FTs and over saturation of job market.Originally posted by LinYu:if happiness is = $$$$ then alot of NO!!!!!!
Q: Are you happy that you are healthy and free from sickness?
A : YES
Q: Are you happy that your family are safe and sound?
A: YES
YES if you do not equate happiness with $$$![]()
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I read that article by MR WANG previously.Originally posted by ^tamago^:"If you care too much about Singapore, first itÂ’ll break your spirit, and finally it will break your heart." With hindsight, he would have added, "And you could suddenly lose your job too."
http://mrwangsaysso.blogspot.com/
few happy elitesOriginally posted by ShutterBug:There are FEW 'happy' people in SG, and it's getting fewer still...
I need not explain WHY...
Life is tough in Sg but life still goes on, so, why don't we live happily and help make the days pleasant for others too?Originally posted by BillyBong:We do not yet have a balanced lifestyle, without the misguided and rabid pursuit of money. Thus we cannot expect Singaporeans to feel 'happy', or even have some indicator to measure our level of happiness.
Our relationship with the govt is also currently strained, no doubt by the controversial ministerial salary hikes, coupled by multiple cost increases ranging from public transportation, GST to property prices.
Until we find some equilibrium in our distorted sense of living, we cannot hope to be 'happy', or gracious enough to say 'hello' to the average stranger on the street.
And in the process, encourage the tyrants and despots to continue with their daylight robbery?Originally posted by pearlie27:Life is tough in Sg but life still goes on, so, why don't we live happily and help make the days pleasant for others too?